Comments on: What Leads A Married Man With A Kid To Have Interest In Another Woman And Show His Emotional Interest In Her?

By: Jacalyn

Jacalyn — Fri, 30 Oct 2009 08:07:27 +0000

My gf went through the same thing her husband and her have been together for 12 years, he has an older child by a different woman and two kids with her. He has a13,4 and 2 yr old, and she just found out that he has been having an affair on her for the past 2 months and they just bought a new house together 4 months ago. She asked him y? He told her that the girl at work reminded him of when she was 17 and they could just go and do whatever they wanted. She said Hello welcome to family life im not 17 anymore and we have three kids, so we cant just up and go as we please. She did end up staying with him cause she loved him and he fathered her two kids. Its hard when you are put into a situation that you never thought you would be thrown into. Some men just think with there penis!!! U need to just leave him alone he is married and has kids and y would you want to get involoved with something like that?

By: AKAO4D

AKAO4D — Fri, 30 Oct 2009 08:07:27 +0000

Fear of responsibility of what comes with having a kid.
Fear of change he may not be ready for. Obviously.
Fear that marriage is next.
Fear that he will forced to something he hadn’t planned to do.
Affairs usually are not about love and sex, it’s usually an interim event that people choose to go through until they are mature enough to make grown up decisions.

By: blueeyed girl

blueeyed girl — Fri, 30 Oct 2009 08:07:27 +0000

Both men and women are guilty of this. Marriage does not mean that your partner gets put on the back burner …. You don’t stop dating each other and creating romance even if you are a parent. You date each other and put each other first. My parents got it right. My parents dated each other throughout the marriage. They went on trips away from us kids….and guess what… I grew up and realized that the world did not revolve around me. I love my parents and thank them everyday for showing me how to be a loving parent. Loving parents start with loving and caring for each other FIRST!

By: EJHill

EJHill — Fri, 30 Oct 2009 08:07:27 +0000

Our culture has changed. It used to be that we preached responsibility and the value of family. Not anymore. Now, all we do is concentrate on ourselves.
Marriage vows? No fault divorce. Your spouse is disposable.
Elderly Parents? Nursing home – the parent warehouse.
A baby? No, not if we call it “a choice.”
We’ve broken the most sacred of all bonds. Any wonder why Western Civilization is on the brink?

By: Elicia

Elicia — Fri, 30 Oct 2009 08:07:27 +0000

what the heck is 5-2 or sth?
Either way, I’ve been in a situation similar to this. Yes, you may be flattered but regardless, you gotta spin your body around on the heel and RUN! Don’t give in, he has some issues but don’t you dare take part in this. It can ruin your life course.

By: It's a zoo out there.

It's a zoo out there. — Fri, 30 Oct 2009 08:07:27 +0000

He is not getting what he needs at home.. plain and simple. Too many men & women think that once you have a Marriage license you can stop working, stop courting, get fat and lazy and expect the handcuffs to stay on.. doesn’t work that way.

By: Emily

Emily — Fri, 30 Oct 2009 08:07:27 +0000

Maybe he is taking second best at home and the child is being put first and not him.
I find that men are like children and like to be complimented and their ego stroked they like to have someones full attention and need to feel needed.

By: Tiffany F

Tiffany F — Fri, 30 Oct 2009 08:07:27 +0000

disinterest in his wife,sexualy, mentaly , and physically but they can get it back and if your the other woman…you shouldnt even ask questions……..you should disapear its women like you who ruin somthing that can be fiixed

By: Cracker Jack

Cracker Jack — Fri, 30 Oct 2009 08:07:27 +0000

It’s called being influenced by the most powerful organ of a female. Also known as a vagina by most of us.

By: dagwood

dagwood — Fri, 30 Oct 2009 08:07:27 +0000

He is probably looking for something that his wife dosen’t give him, men also go through stages after kids and marriage

By: Space Cadet #5

Space Cadet #5 — Fri, 30 Oct 2009 08:07:27 +0000

He’s not getting laid at home.
Any further detail you require on this topic?

By: Tom

Tom — Fri, 30 Oct 2009 08:07:27 +0000

probably his penis

By: carrie

carrie — Fri, 30 Oct 2009 08:07:27 +0000

Simple. He is a disgusting, unfaithul jerk. LOSER ALERT!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Enough said.

By: ♥Sophia♥

♥Sophia♥ — Fri, 30 Oct 2009 08:07:27 +0000

Simple.
SEX.
Don’t fool yourself it’s anything else.
He’s just had a baby. Leave him alone.

By: Mean Carleen

Mean Carleen — Fri, 30 Oct 2009 08:07:27 +0000

He is what is called a CHEATER!!!